对不起
duìbuqǐAn expression of apology or regret for a mistake or inconvenience.
对不起，我不知道你在等我。
Sorry, I didn't know you were waiting for me.
A: 谢谢你的帮助！B: 不用客气，对不起，我帮不上忙。
A: Thank you for your help! B: You're welcome, sorry I couldn't help.
Used in both formal and informal contexts, but more common in speech than writing.
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💡Pro Tip
Tone and Context
In Chinese, the tone of an apology can vary based on the situation. A simple '对不起' is sufficient for minor mistakes, but for serious issues, adding '真的' (really) or '非常' (very) can convey deeper regret.
⚡Gold Rule
Apology Hierarchy
Chinese apologies often follow a hierarchy of severity. '对不起' is mid-level; for minor issues, '抱歉' is softer, while for major transgressions, phrases like '请原谅' (please forgive me) are used.
📖Word Origin
The word '对' means 'correct' or 'facing,' and '不起' means 'cannot rise.' Together, they imply 'I cannot face you properly,' reflecting the act of lowering oneself in apology.
📝Usage Notes
In Chinese culture, apologies are often accompanied by gestures like bowing or nodding. The phrase is universally understood but may sound overly formal in very casual settings where '抱歉' (bàoqiàn) is preferred.