pentirsi

/penˈtir.si/
to regret

Mi pento di non aver studiato di più per l'esame.

I regret not having studied more for the exam.


neutral

To feel sorrow or remorse about a past action or decision; to wish one had acted differently.

Si pente di aver accettato quel lavoro.

He regrets having accepted that job.

Ci pentiamo di non essere venuti prima.

We regret not having come earlier.

Used with 'di' + infinitive verb or 'per' + noun phrase. Common in both spoken and written Italian.

Collocations

pentirsi di qualcosato regret somethingpentirsi di aver fatto qualcosato regret having done somethingnon pentirsi di nullato have no regrets

Pro Tip

Common Mistake: Direct Translation

Avoid translating 'I regret my decision' as *Ho pentito la mia decisione*. The correct reflexive form is *Mi pento della mia decisione*. The verb always requires the reflexive pronoun (*mi, ti, si*, etc.).

Gold Rule

Preposition Rules

Use 'di' before infinitives (*pentirsi di fare*) or nouns (*pentirsi della scelta*). Use 'per' for reasons (*pentirsi per il ritardo*).

Word Origin

From Latin *poenitēre* (to repent), related to *poena* (punishment, penalty). Evolved through Vulgar Latin *pentire* before stabilizing in Italian.

Usage Notes

The reflexive form (*pentirsi*) is essential—it's not used transitively like in English ('I regret my decision' → 'Mi pento della mia decisione'). Always requires a preposition ('di' or 'per') to link to the object of regret.

Word Breakdown

pent-
root related to repentance (from Latin *poenit-*)
root
+
-irsi
reflexive pronoun suffix (indicates the subject is affected by the action)
suffix
Dizionario Italiano-Inglese