compose yourself

/kəmˈpoʊz jɜːrˈsɛlf/
phrasal verbIntermediate
What It Really Means
To regain self-control, especially after being upset or emotional
Literal Meaning
To arrange or settle oneself
Literal Breakdown
composeto arrange or settle+yourselfoneself
Mental Image
The mental picture of arranging one's emotions or thoughts in an orderly manner, like arranging pieces of a puzzle.
When to Use
After receiving bad news, a person might take a deep breath and pause to compose themselves before responding.
Cultural Note
This phrase reflects the cultural value of self-control and emotional regulation, common in many English-speaking societies.
informal

To regain self-control, especially after being upset or emotional

He paused for a moment to compose himself before giving his speech.

He took a pause to calm down and gather his thoughts before speaking.

The actor needed a few minutes backstage to compose himself before the next scene.

The actor took time to relax and focus before continuing his performance.

💡

Often used when someone is visibly upset, nervous, or emotionally overwhelmed.

Collocations

compose oneselfcalm down and regain composure

Synonyms

Antonyms

Related Phrases

pull yourself togetherphrase
regain self-control
keep your coolphrase
remain calm under pressure

💡Pro Tip

Usage Context

Use this phrase when someone is visibly upset or needs to calm down. It is often used in formal or semi-formal situations.

Gold Rule

Formality

While the phrase is idiomatic, it can be used in both formal and informal contexts, depending on the situation.

📖Word Origin

From 'compose' (to arrange or settle) + 'yourself' (reflexive pronoun). The phrase suggests arranging one's emotions or thoughts in an orderly manner.

📝Usage Notes

Commonly used in situations where someone is visibly upset, nervous, or needs to regain self-control. Often followed by a pause or action that helps achieve this.

Word Breakdown

compose
to arrange or settle
root
+
yourself
reflexive pronoun indicating self-control
reflexive
English Dictionary