嫌いになる
kirai ni naruTo start feeling dislike or aversion toward someone or something that previously did not evoke such feelings.
最初は彼のことが好きだったけど、最近嫌いになった。
I liked him at first, but I’ve grown to dislike him recently.
この仕事は嫌いになった。
I’ve started to dislike this job.
Used when a neutral or positive feeling turns negative over time. Often implies a gradual change rather than an immediate reaction.
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💡Pro Tip
Gradual vs. Sudden Dislike
Use 「嫌いになる」 to emphasize a gradual change in feelings. For sudden dislikes, consider 「嫌悪を感じる」 (to feel aversion) or 「嫌気が差す」 (to feel disgusted).
⚡Gold Rule
Context Matters
This phrase is best used when describing a shift in feelings over time. It is not suitable for expressing immediate dislikes or reactions.
📖Word Origin
The phrase combines the adjective 「嫌い」(kirai, dislike) with the verb 「なる」(naru, to become). 「嫌い」 derives from the verb 「嫌う」(kirau, to hate) and the adjectival suffix 「-い」. The construction 「嫌いになる」 emerged as a natural way to express the transition from neutrality or liking to dislike in modern Japanese.
📝Usage Notes
This phrase is commonly used in personal relationships, work environments, or when discussing preferences. It implies a shift in feelings rather than an immediate reaction. Avoid using it for sudden dislikes unless the context clearly suggests a gradual change.