was sich liebt, das neckt sich

/vas zɪç liːpt das nɛkt zɪç/proverb
playful teasing between lovers

Sie necken sich immer, aber es ist nur eine Art, ihre Zuneigung zu zeigen.

They always tease each other, but it's just a way to show their affection.


What It Really Means
Affectionate teasing is a normal and positive part of close relationships, indicating comfort and intimacy rather than hostility.
Literal Meaning
What loves each other, teases each other
Literal Breakdown
was sich liebtwhat loves each other+das neckt sichteases each other
Mental Image
The mental image of two people playfully teasing each other, laughing and enjoying their close bond.
When to Use
A couple is joking around, and one person says, 'Was sich liebt, das neckt sich,' to explain why they're teasing each other.
Cultural Note
This proverb reflects the German cultural value of directness and the idea that close relationships can include playful teasing without offense.
informal

A proverb expressing that affectionate teasing is common and normal between people who love each other, often indicating that such behavior is a sign of closeness rather than hostility.

Nach Jahren der Ehe necken sie sich noch immer wie Teenager.

After years of marriage, they still tease each other like teenagers.

Er neckt sie oft, aber sie weiß, dass es nur bedeutet, dass er sie liebt.

He often teases her, but she knows it just means he loves her.

This proverb is often used to explain why couples or close friends might tease each other without any real malice.

Related Phrases

Liebe geht durch den Magenproverb
The way to a person's heart is through their stomach
Aller Anfang ist schwerproverb
Every beginning is difficult

Pro Tip

Cultural Context

In German culture, this proverb is often used to normalize playful teasing in relationships, showing that it's a sign of comfort and intimacy.

Gold Rule

Usage Rule

Use this proverb when explaining why someone is teasing a loved one in a lighthearted way, not to justify hurtful behavior.

Word Origin

The phrase originates from German folklore and reflects the idea that affectionate teasing is a natural part of close relationships.

Usage Notes

This proverb is commonly used to describe playful banter between lovers or close friends, emphasizing that such teasing is a sign of affection rather than conflict.

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