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To not let something bother or worry you; to dismiss a concern or offense lightly.
他只是开玩笑，你别放在心上。
He was just joking; don't take it to heart.
虽然批评很严厉，但请别放在心上。
Although the criticism was harsh, please don't take it to heart.
Often used to comfort someone who is upset or offended by a minor issue.
In Chinese culture, emotional restraint and not dwelling on minor issues is often valued. This phrase reflects that cultural tendency to 'let go' of trivial concerns.
Use '别放在心上' when someone is upset by a minor issue or criticism that you want them to dismiss. It is not appropriate for serious matters.
The phrase combines the verb '放' (to put/place) with '心上' (on one's heart/mind), literally meaning 'don't place it on your heart.' It reflects a cultural emphasis on emotional resilience and not dwelling on minor grievances.
This phrase is commonly used in spoken Chinese to reassure someone that a minor issue or criticism should not be taken seriously. It carries a tone of empathy and dismissal of trivial matters.