Looking up...
Il a abîmé sa voiture en la garent mal.
He damaged his car by parking it poorly.
To cause physical harm or deterioration to something, making it less functional or valuable.
La pluie a abîmé les récoltes.
The rain damaged the crops.
Ce tissu s'abîme facilement.
This fabric wears out easily.
Commonly used for objects, materials, or abstract concepts (e.g., reputation).
To harm someone's health or well-being, often gradually.
Son stress chronique a abîmé son cœur.
His chronic stress damaged his heart.
Less common than the physical sense but still idiomatic.
Use *s'abîmer* for self-inflicted damage (e.g., *Il s'est abîmé les mains* = 'He damaged his hands'). Non-reflexive *abîmer* requires an object (e.g., *La chaleur a abîmé le tableau* = 'The heat damaged the painting').
For physical damage, *abîmer* is neutral (e.g., *abîmer un livre* = 'to damage a book'). For abstract harm (e.g., reputation), it implies irreparable damage (e.g., *abîmer sa réputation* = 'to ruin one's reputation').
From Old French *abimer* (12th century), from *à* (to) + *bimer* (to plunge), from Frankish *bim* (edge, point). Evolved from literal 'to sink' to metaphorical 'to damage'.
Often used reflexively (*s'abîmer*) for self-inflicted damage (e.g., *Il s'est abîmé les yeux à force de lire* = 'He ruined his eyes from reading'). In informal speech, *abîmer* can imply 'to ruin' in a broader sense (e.g., *Ce film abîme le genre* = 'This film ruins the genre').