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말이 거칠면 관계도 거칠다

mari geochilmyeon gwanjedo geochilda
proverb★Intermediate— Rude speech leads to strained relationships◆proverb
◆ What It Really Means
Harsh language can damage relationships, so one should communicate respectfully to maintain good interpersonal dynamics.
¶ Literal Meaning
If the words are rough, the relationship will also be rough.
Literal Breakdown
말이 거칠면if the words are rough+관계도 거칠다the relationship will also be rough
◇ Mental Image
The proverb paints a picture of language as a tool that can either build or damage relationships, much like how rough tools can damage surfaces.
◈ When to Use
A parent advising their child to be polite to teachers to maintain a good relationship, saying '말이 거칠면 관계도 거칠다.'
◉ Cultural Note
This proverb reflects the Korean cultural value of '화합' (harmony) and the importance of respectful communication in maintaining social bonds.
informal

This proverb emphasizes that harsh or rude language can damage relationships, as communication style directly affects interpersonal dynamics.

친구와 말다툼을 하다가 말이 거칠어졌는데, 그 후로 관계가 많이 소원해졌어.

After arguing with my friend and using harsh words, our relationship became quite distant.

상사에게 말이 거칠면 나중에 후회할 수 있으니 항상 신중하게 말해야 해.

If you speak rudely to your boss, you might regret it later, so you should always speak carefully.

💡

This proverb is often used to advise people to be mindful of their language to maintain healthy relationships.

Synonyms

Antonyms

Related Phrases

말이 거칠다phrase
to speak rudely or harshly
관계가 소원해지다phrase
to become distant in a relationship

💡Pro Tip

Cultural Context

In Korean culture, respectful communication is highly valued, and this proverb reflects that emphasis.

⚡Gold Rule

Usage Rule

This proverb is typically used to advise someone to be more careful with their words to avoid damaging relationships.

📖Word Origin

This proverb originates from traditional Korean wisdom about the importance of respectful communication in maintaining social harmony.

📝Usage Notes

This proverb is commonly used in both formal and informal contexts to emphasize the impact of language on relationships.

Word Breakdown

말이 거칠면
if one speaks harshly
phrase
+
관계도 거칠다
the relationship becomes strained
phrase
한영사전

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