non tutto va come si vuole
Non tutto va come si vuole nella vita, ma dobbiamo imparare ad adattarci.
Things don't always go as planned in life, but we must learn to adapt.
Life often doesn't turn out the way one hopes or expects.
Ho studiato tanto per l'esame, ma non tutto va come si vuole: ho preso un voto basso.
I studied hard for the exam, but things don't always go as planned: I got a low grade.
Abbiamo pianificato tutto per la vacanza, ma non tutto va come si vuole: il volo è stato cancellato.
We planned everything for the vacation, but things don't always go as planned: the flight was canceled.
Used to express disappointment when reality doesn't match expectations, often with a philosophical or resigned tone.
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Pro Tip
When to use this idiom
Use this phrase when something goes wrong despite your best efforts, especially in contexts like work, relationships, or travel. It conveys wisdom without bitterness.
Gold Rule
Resignation vs. Action
While the idiom accepts imperfection, it’s often followed by practical advice (e.g., 'ma possiamo trovare una soluzione'). Balance realism with problem-solving.
Word Origin
Literal translation: 'not everything goes as one wants.' The phrase reflects a common Italian resignation to life's unpredictability, rooted in the cultural acceptance of imperfection (cf. 'la speranza è l'ultima a morire').
Usage Notes
Commonly used in both spoken and written Italian to acknowledge setbacks or frustrations. Often followed by suggestions to accept the situation or adapt.