स्वयं पर दोष माने

/səˈvə̃ pər doːʂ maːneː/
phraseIntermediate to blame oneselfidiom
What It Really Means
To engage in self-blame or excessive guilt over a negative situation, often beyond what is objectively justified.
Literal Meaning
To consider fault on oneself.
Literal Breakdown
स्वयंself+परon+दोषfault+मानेto accept or consider
Mental Image
The mental image is of a person placing a burden of guilt or responsibility on their own shoulders, as if carrying a heavy weight labeled 'fault.'
When to Use
Imagine a student who fails an exam and spends days thinking, 'It's all my fault. I should have studied harder.' They are using this phrase to describe their self-blame.
Cultural Note
In Hindi-speaking cultures, self-blame is often tied to the concept of 'dharma' (duty) and 'karma' (action and consequence). Excessive self-blame may stem from a strong sense of personal responsibility, but it can also reflect societal pressures to avoid letting others down.
informal

To accept responsibility for a negative outcome by attributing fault to oneself, often excessively or without justification.

जब परीक्षा में फेल हुआ, तो उसने स्वयं पर दोष माना।

When he failed the exam, he blamed himself.

उसने स्वयं पर दोष माना कि उसने अपने माता-पिता को निराश किया है।

She blamed herself for disappointing her parents.

💡

Often used in contexts of guilt, regret, or self-criticism, especially after failure or disappointment.

💡Pro Tip

Cultural Context

In Hindi-speaking cultures, self-blame is often seen as a sign of maturity or responsibility, but it can also lead to unnecessary guilt. Use this phrase to describe someone who is overly critical of themselves.

Gold Rule

When to Use

Use this phrase when someone is excessively blaming themselves for something that may not be entirely their fault, or when they are reflecting on their actions with regret.

📖Word Origin

This phrase is a direct Hindi construction where 'स्वयं' means 'self', 'पर' means 'on', and 'दोष माने' means 'to blame' (literally 'to consider as fault'). The idiomatic meaning arises from the cultural emphasis on self-reflection and personal responsibility in Hindi-speaking societies.

📝Usage Notes

This phrase is commonly used in personal and emotional contexts, such as relationships, academic failures, or professional setbacks. It reflects a tendency toward introspection and self-criticism, which can sometimes be unhealthy if taken to extremes.

Word Breakdown

स्वयं
self
root
+
पर
on
postposition
+
दोष
fault or blame
noun
+
माने
to consider or accept
verb
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