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hem and haw

/hɛm ænd hɔː/◆idiom
to hesitate or speak evasively

When asked about his decision, he just hemmed and hawed without giving a clear answer.

He avoided giving a direct answer by speaking vaguely and hesitating.


◆ What It Really Means
To hesitate or speak in an evasive or indecisive manner, often to avoid giving a clear answer.
¶ Literal Meaning
The sounds 'hem' and 'haw' are non-committal vocalizations used when someone is hesitating or avoiding a direct answer.
Literal Breakdown
hema non-committal sound made when hesitating+hawanother non-committal sound made when hesitating
◇ Mental Image
The phrase evokes the image of someone making vague, non-committal sounds or statements, avoiding a direct answer.
◈ When to Use
A person is asked a difficult question and instead of giving a clear answer, they hesitate and speak vaguely, making sounds like 'hem' and 'haw.'
◉ Cultural Note
This phrase has been used in English for centuries to describe evasive or indecisive speech. It reflects the cultural tendency to avoid direct confrontation or clear answers in certain situations.
informal

To hesitate or speak in an evasive or indecisive manner, often by making non-committal sounds or vague statements.

She hemmed and hawed for minutes before finally admitting she didn't like the gift.

She hesitated and spoke vaguely for a long time before finally admitting she didn't like the gift.

The politician hemmed and hawed when asked about the scandal, refusing to give a straight answer.

The politician avoided giving a direct answer about the scandal by speaking evasively.

This phrase is often used to describe someone who is avoiding giving a clear or direct answer.

Synonyms

beat around the bushditherprevaricatetergiversatewaver

Antonyms

speak plainlybe decisivebe forthright

Related Phrases

beat around the bushidiom
to avoid talking directly about something
ditherverb
to hesitate or be indecisive

Pro Tip

Usage Context

This phrase is typically used in informal conversations to describe someone who is avoiding giving a clear answer.

Gold Rule

Avoid Overuse

While this phrase is useful for describing hesitation, overusing it can make your speech sound repetitive.

Word Origin

The phrase originates from the sounds 'hem' and 'haw,' which are non-committal vocalizations used when someone is hesitating or avoiding a direct answer. The phrase has been in use since at least the 19th century.

Usage Notes

This phrase is commonly used in informal contexts to describe someone who is being evasive or indecisive in their speech.

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