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gaslighting
/ˈɡæslaɪtɪŋ/
manipulating someone into doubting their own reality
She realized her partner was gaslighting her when he denied saying hurtful things she clearly remembered.
Her partner was making her question her own memory of events.
psychology
Psychological manipulation where someone makes another person doubt their own perceptions, memories, or sanity.
The boss constantly changed the project deadlines, making employees question their own understanding of the timeline.
The boss's behavior was a form of gaslighting, causing confusion and self-doubt among the team.
Often used in discussions about abusive relationships, workplace dynamics, or political manipulation.
Collocations
gaslight someonemanipulate someone into doubting their own realitygaslighting tacticsmethods used to confuse or manipulate someone
Related Phrases
Pro Tip
Recognizing Gaslighting
Pay attention if someone frequently denies your experiences, dismisses your feelings, or makes you question your own memory.
Gold Rule
Avoid Overuse
Gaslighting is a serious form of psychological abuse. Use the term carefully to avoid trivializing real cases.
Word Origin
Derived from the 1938 play and 1944 film 'Gaslight,' where a husband manipulates his wife into believing she is insane by making her doubt her own perceptions.
Usage Notes
Common in discussions about abusive relationships, workplace bullying, and political propaganda. Avoid using it for minor disagreements or misunderstandings.
Word Breakdown
gas
refers to the 1944 film 'Gaslight'
rootlighting
refers to the manipulation of light in the film
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