deny oneself

/dɪˈnaɪ ɒnˈsɛlf/
to refuse to indulge in something pleasurable

She decided to deny herself dessert to stay healthy.

She refused to eat dessert in order to maintain her health.


formalinformal

To refuse to allow oneself to have or do something pleasurable or desirable, often as a form of self-discipline or sacrifice.

He denied himself the luxury of a vacation to save money.

He chose not to take a vacation in order to save money.

Monks often deny themselves material comforts as part of their spiritual practice.

Monks frequently refrain from enjoying material comforts as part of their religious discipline.

This phrase is often used to describe acts of self-denial, whether for personal growth, health, or moral reasons.

Collocations

deny oneself pleasureto refuse to experience enjoymentdeny oneself comfortto avoid indulging in comforts

Related Phrases

deprive oneselfphrase
to prevent oneself from having something
forgophrase
to do without something willingly

Pro Tip

Self-Discipline

This phrase is often used to describe acts of self-control, such as avoiding unhealthy foods or unnecessary expenses.

Gold Rule

Context Matters

Use 'deny oneself' when emphasizing the act of self-imposed restriction, not when others are forcing the denial.

Word Origin

The phrase combines the verb 'deny' (from Old English 'dēnian') with the reflexive pronoun 'oneself,' emphasizing self-imposed restriction.

Usage Notes

This phrase is commonly used in contexts of self-discipline, sacrifice, or moral restraint. It can also appear in religious or philosophical discussions about asceticism.

Word Breakdown

deny
to refuse or reject
root
+
oneself
reflexive pronoun referring to the subject
root
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