passive-aggressive

/ˈpæsɪv əˈɡrɛsɪv/
indirectly expressing hostility

She gave me the silent treatment and slammed the door—classic passive-aggressive behavior.

She showed anger indirectly through actions like ignoring and slamming the door.


informal

Expressing negative feelings indirectly through actions rather than direct communication.

His passive-aggressive comments about my work made the team uncomfortable.

His indirect, hostile remarks about my work created tension.

Often used in psychology to describe a behavioral pattern where frustration is expressed subtly.

Related Phrases

silent treatmentphrase
ignoring someone as a form of punishment
backhanded complimentphrase
a compliment with an underlying insult

Pro Tip

Recognize the Signs

Passive-aggressive behavior often includes sarcasm, procrastination, or subtle sabotage.

Gold Rule

Avoid Misuse

Don't label minor disagreements as passive-aggressive; reserve it for clear patterns of indirect hostility.

Word Origin

Combines 'passive' (avoiding direct confrontation) and 'aggressive' (hostile intent). Popularized in psychology.

Usage Notes

Common in interpersonal conflicts, workplace dynamics, and social interactions. Avoid using it to describe mild annoyance.

Word Breakdown

passive
avoiding direct confrontation
root
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aggressive
hostile or confrontational
root
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