不能自已

bù néng zì yǐidiom
cannot help oneself

听到这个消息,她激动得不能自已。

Upon hearing the news, she was too excited to contain herself.


What It Really Means
To be emotionally overwhelmed to the point of losing self-control, often in a positive context like joy or excitement.
Literal Meaning
Cannot stop oneself from [emotion].
Literal Breakdown
不能cannot+oneself+stop
Mental Image
Imagine a dam breaking under the pressure of rising emotions—one's inner restraints collapse, and emotions flow uncontrollably.
When to Use
At a wedding, when the bride and groom first see each other, they might be described as '不能自已' with joy.
Cultural Note
Roots in Confucian ritual texts, where emotional control was emphasized. Modern usage retains the classical emphasis on emotional expression.
literary

To be so emotionally overwhelmed that one cannot control one's feelings or actions.

看到孩子平安归来,母亲泪流满面,不能自已。

Seeing her child return safely, the mother was overcome with tears and couldn't help herself.

他听到这个笑话时,忍不住大笑,不能自已。

When he heard the joke, he burst into laughter he couldn't contain.

Often used to describe intense emotional reactions like joy, grief, or laughter.

Collocations

激动得不能自已too excited to contain oneself悲伤得不能自已too grief-stricken to contain oneself喜悦得不能自已too joyful to contain oneself

Related Phrases

情不自禁idiom
cannot help doing something
不由自主idiom
involuntarily
失控word
out of control

Pro Tip

Emotional Context

不能自已 is typically used for positive emotions like joy or excitement, but can also describe negative emotions like grief. Avoid using it for neutral or calm states.

Gold Rule

Idiom Usage

Cannot be used literally (e.g., not for physical inability). It always refers to emotional overwhelm.

Word Origin

From the classical Chinese text 'Book of Rites' (礼记), where it described the inability to control one's emotions in ritual contexts.

Usage Notes

Commonly used in both written and spoken Chinese to express a strong emotional state. Often appears in literary or formal contexts.

Word Breakdown

不能
cannot
verb
+
oneself
pronoun
+
stop
verb
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