How to say "Excuse me" in French

In French, politeness is deeply tied to social context, and the phrase you choose depends on the situation and your relationship with the person. Unlike English, French often uses different forms based on formality, age, or status. For Excuse me, the most common and versatile phrase is Pardon, which works in almost all casual or neutral situations. However, in formal or respectful contexts, you might use Excusez-moi, which is slightly more polished. Beginners should start with Pardon and adjust based on the response or setting.

1. To get someone’s attention or pass by in a casual setting The simplest and most universal phrase is Pardon. It’s polite but not overly formal, making it ideal for everyday use.

   • Pardon, pourriez-vous m’aider, s’il vous plaît? Excuse me, could you help me, please?
   • Pardon, où est la station de métro la plus proche? Excuse me, where is the nearest metro station?

2. To apologize for a minor mistake or bumping into someone Pardon is also used to apologize for small offenses, like accidentally brushing against someone in a crowd.

   • Pardon, je ne vous avais pas vu! Excuse me, I didn’t see you!
   • Pardon, c’est de ma faute, je suis désolé. Excuse me, it’s my fault, I’m sorry.

3. In formal or respectful situations If you’re addressing someone older, a superior, or in a professional setting, use Excusez-moi. It sounds more refined and is often paired with s’il vous plaît (please).

   • Excusez-moi, madame, pourriez-vous répéter, s’il vous plaît? Excuse me, ma’am, could you repeat that, please?
   • Excusez-moi, monsieur, je cherche le bureau des réservations. Excuse me, sir, I’m looking for the reservations office.

4. When you need to interrupt or correct someone If you’re politely interrupting a conversation, Pardon is appropriate, but Excusez-moi adds extra courtesy. Avoid using these phrases in loud or confrontational settings.

   • Pardon, je peux vous poser une question? Excuse me, can I ask you a question?
   • Excusez-moi, mais je crois qu’il y a une erreur. Excuse me, but I think there’s a mistake.

👉 Most useful for daily life: Start by memorizing Pardon—it’s the go-to phrase for almost every casual situation. Use Excusez-moi only in formal or respectful contexts, or when someone older or in a position of authority responds to you with it first.