जल में रहकर मगर से बैर

jala mẽ rahakar magara sē bairidiom
maintain enmity with one's benefactor

वह अपने मालिक के साथ काम करता है लेकिन जल में रहकर मगर से बैर रखता है।

He works with his boss but maintains enmity with his benefactor.


What It Really Means
To act against one's own interests or betray those who support you, leading to harm or failure.
Literal Meaning
While living in water, harboring enmity toward a crocodile.
Literal Breakdown
जलwater+मेंin+रहकरwhile living+मगरcrocodile+सेwith+बैरenmity
Mental Image
A crocodile living in water but being hostile to its own habitat, symbolizing self-destructive behavior.
When to Use
A person who works for a company but constantly undermines its success, or a student who receives help from a teacher but criticizes them publicly.
Cultural Note
This idiom reflects the traditional Indian value of gratitude (कृतज्ञता) and warns against ingratitude (अहसान फरामोशी), which is considered morally wrong in Hindu philosophy.
literary

To harbor hostility or resentment toward someone who has helped or supported you, making the situation harmful or counterproductive.

उसने अपने गुरु से बैर रखा, जबकि गुरु ने उसे जीवन भर ज्ञान दिया था।

He held enmity toward his guru, even though the guru had imparted knowledge to him all his life.

Often used to describe a paradoxical or self-destructive attitude.

Pro Tip

Usage Context

Use this idiom when describing a person who acts against their own interests or betrays those who have helped them, often leading to their downfall.

Gold Rule

Idiom Interpretation

Always interpret this idiom figuratively, not literally. It is not about crocodiles or water but about the absurdity of opposing one's own support system.

Usage Notes

This idiom is derived from the literal scenario of a crocodile (मगर) living in water (जल) and being hostile to its own habitat or the elements that sustain it. It metaphorically warns against betraying or opposing those who support you.

Word Breakdown

जल
water
noun
+
में
in
postposition
+
रहकर
while living
converb
+
मगर
crocodile
noun
+
से
with
postposition
+
बैर
enmity
noun
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