अपने आप को नज़रअंदाज़ करना

/əpneː aːp koː nəzaɾəndaːʒ kəɾnaː/idiom
to ignore oneself

वह अपने आप को नज़रअंदाज़ करता रहता है।

He keeps ignoring himself.


What It Really Means
To systematically disregard one's own needs, emotions, or well-being, often leading to emotional or physical harm.
Literal Meaning
To overlook oneself.
Literal Breakdown
अपने आपoneself+कोto+नज़रअंदाज़overlook+करनाto do
Mental Image
Imagine turning your back on your own reflection in a mirror, refusing to acknowledge it as part of yourself.
When to Use
A woman spends all day caring for her family but skips meals and ignores her fatigue, leaving her exhausted and unwell.
Cultural Note
This idiom reflects societal pressures in South Asia, where women are often socialized to prioritize family needs over their own. It’s frequently discussed in mental health contexts as a form of self-abnegation.
informal

To deliberately or habitually overlook or disregard one's own needs, feelings, or well-being, often to the point of self-neglect.

वह अपने आप को नज़रअंदाज़ कर रहा है, इसलिए उसका स्वास्थ्य बिगड़ रहा है।

He is ignoring himself, so his health is deteriorating.

तुम अपने आप को नज़रअंदाज़ मत करो, तुम्हें अपनी देखभाल करनी चाहिए।

Don't ignore yourself; you should take care of yourself.

Commonly used in contexts where someone prioritizes others' needs over their own to an unhealthy extent.

Pro Tip

Cultural Context

In Hindi-speaking cultures, phrases like this often highlight the tension between duty (e.g., to family) and self-care. It’s important to recognize when 'ignoring oneself' becomes harmful.

Gold Rule

Self-Neglect vs. Sacrifice

Distinguish between healthy self-sacrifice (e.g., for loved ones) and unhealthy self-neglect (e.g., ignoring health or emotions). The idiom implies the latter.

Word Origin

The phrase combines 'अपने आप' (apne āp, 'oneself') and 'नज़रअंदाज़ करना' (nazaraṃdāz karnā, 'to overlook/ignore'), deriving from Persian ' nazar andāz' (look away). The idiom reflects a cultural emphasis on self-sacrifice, often discussed in psychological contexts.

Usage Notes

This phrase is often used in discussions about mental health, self-care, or societal expectations of selflessness, particularly in South Asian contexts where women or caregivers are often expected to neglect their own needs.

Word Breakdown

अपने आप
oneself
phrase
+
को
to (accusative marker)
postposition
+
नज़रअंदाज़ करना
to overlook/ignore
verb phrase
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