old married

/oʊld ˈmɛrɪd/
long-term married

After 30 years of marriage, they still held hands like old married couples do.

The phrase describes people who have been married for a long time and act in a familiar, comfortable way.


informal

Describing people who have been married for a long time and exhibit the typical behaviors or attitudes of long-term spouses.

The old married couple shared a quiet understanding without needing to speak.

The phrase emphasizes their long-standing familiarity and comfort with each other.

She rolled her eyes at his jokes, a habit of old married people.

The phrase highlights their shared history and predictable reactions.

Often used to describe couples who have developed a routine or predictable dynamic over many years of marriage.

Collocations

old married couplea pair who have been married for many years and act in a familiar wayold married peopleindividuals who have been married for a long time

Related Phrases

settle into married lifephrase
to become comfortable with the routines and expectations of marriage
married blissphrase
the state of being happily married

Pro Tip

Avoid literal interpretation

Do not confuse this phrase with the literal meaning of 'old' (elderly) and 'married.' It refers to the duration of the marriage, not the age of the individuals.

Gold Rule

Context matters

Use 'old married' to describe the behaviors or attitudes of long-term couples, not their physical age or the legal duration of their marriage.

Word Origin

The phrase combines 'old' (indicating long duration) with 'married' (the state of being wed). The usage emerged in the 19th century to describe couples who had been married for many years, emphasizing their shared history and predictable behaviors.

Usage Notes

Primarily used in informal contexts to describe the behaviors or attitudes of long-term married couples. It can carry a slightly humorous or affectionate tone, implying a stereotypical dynamic (e.g., finishing each other's sentences, shared habits). Not typically used in formal or legal contexts.

Word Breakdown

old
long-standing or long-duration
adjective
+
married
the state of being in a marriage
adjective
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