die Kirche im Dorf lassen
keep things reasonableEr wollte alles auf einmal ändern, aber ich sagte ihm, er solle die Kirche im Dorf lassen.
He wanted to change everything at once, but I told him to keep things reasonable.
to avoid going too far or overreacting; to stay moderate or sensible in one's actions or demands
Lass doch die Kirche im Dorf! Du kannst nicht einfach alles verbieten.
Keep things reasonable! You can't just ban everything.
Er plant ein riesiges Projekt, aber ich hoffe, er lässt die Kirche im Dorf.
He's planning a huge project, but I hope he keeps things reasonable.
Often used to advise against excessive ambition, radical changes, or unrealistic demands.
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When to use this idiom
Use this idiom when someone is making overly ambitious plans, demands, or changes, and you want to gently suggest they should be more moderate or realistic.
Usage Notes
The phrase originates from the idea of keeping the church (a central village landmark) within the village boundaries, rather than letting it dominate the landscape excessively. It metaphorically advises against overreach or excess.